In this Architecture Social conversation (around 42 minutes), Stephen Drew is joined by Daniel K Poku-Davies, an architectural designer and co-founder of Our Space, to talk about networking and how to navigate the London architecture scene. It is a practical, encouraging session on building genuine relationships, getting past the nerves and turning everyday conversations into long-term career opportunities.
Students, Part 1 and Part 2 architectural assistants, and early-career designers who want to build their professional network but find networking awkward or intimidating. It is equally useful for practice leaders and mentors thinking about how to bring younger team members into industry events and conversations.
Daniel reframes networking away from the stiff, transactional image many people dislike. His starting point is curiosity about people: informal chats, coffees and dinners where the goal is to understand someone rather than to extract a deal. Opportunities tend to follow trust, and trust is built over time through genuine conversation.
Both Stephen and Daniel are candid that networking can feel nerve-wracking, and that confidence is built rather than innate. The advice is to be yourself, talk about your passions, and not try to be someone else. Starting small, introducing yourself and staying for an hour is enough at first.
A reliable technique is to ask the other person about themselves and their work. Most people enjoy talking about what they do, so questions such as what do you design, or what are you working on, keep a conversation flowing without pressure.
Daniel encourages meeting people from other disciplines, including engineering, construction and finance. He references events run by bodies such as the Chartered Institute of Building, and the value of being in a room with contractors, manufacturers and peers who may become future collaborators or leaders.
Practical sources include Eventbrite, RIBA events, the London Festival of Architecture, the Young Architects and Developers Alliance, and Toastmasters for public speaking practice. Many events are free, and Daniel recommends students use these platforms and simply turn up.
Rather than overcommitting, Daniel suggests aiming to network around twice a month and building from there. Confidence grows like a wall, one brick at a time, and momentum compounds as it becomes a routine.
An online profile on LinkedIn or Instagram works best alongside a real in-person presence. Posting consistently helps, but the ability to hold a face-to-face conversation is what turns a connection into a relationship.
Daniel argues that relationship building should be modelled inside practices, not just at external events. He points to the value of senior people mixing with junior staff in informal settings, and suggests organisations build succession by teaching networking and communication skills from Part 1 and Part 2 onwards.
Daniel K Poku-Davies is a London-based architectural designer and urbanist, and a co-founder of Our Space, a community interest company and creative network connecting designers, creators and makers. He is a familiar presence across the London architecture scene and champions networking, mentorship and skills-based events that help the next generation build confidence and opportunity.